'Past'...the Hardest thing to Forget, Indeed !

 “It is said that it is of no use to knock the doors of the past since you are unlikely to get an answer back”! Whatever has happened, ‘has happened’, whatever is gone, ‘is gone’! There is no use of lingering over the Past.

You cannot change what took place. So instead of regretting, why not forget it and move on with Life.  Why not live the Present & why not just hope for a better Future.
But it is not that Easy as it sounds! The imprint that the Past Memories leave on your mind is impossible to be erased. You cannot just forget them & get over it. Some part of it will always remain with you, throughout your Life. And even if you want to forget them, you will never be able to do so.
While recalling some of the hard times, you feel like questioning to yourself that “How can Life be so unpredictable at times? Sometime people make you feel the most Significant person in their life then all of a sudden your importance drops to even less than a dust particle in the air. Like you never existed for them…’Time Does Change everything’! “
Since everything happens for a reason. So whatever takes place in your Life it all happens because it was ‘meant’ to happen. It was written in your destiny. Whatever you dealt with in your life whether the Hardships, the Struggle or if anybody has ever let you down, it all had a reason behind it to happen. It helps to make you a Resilient & a Stronger person, than ever.
A wise man learns from his mistakes of the past. He is quite cautious enough to not to repeat them ever again in his life.
“Past teaches you, Present gives you a chance to improve and Future shows your results of what you’ve learnt from your Past & the level of Effort you’ve made in your Present to Rectify you mistakes”.

What is 'Life'...!

I don’t know what is the ‘Perfect’ definition to what you call a “Happy Life”. But I just want to Thank GOD for the Life which HE has blessed me with.
No one can ever have a ‘Perfect Life’ & by this I mean that Life is a mixture of different things. This mixture includes: Happiness, Joy, Love, Sadness, Regrets, Excitement, Facing Defeat or Winning at some stage, expecting the Unexpected & much more of such Feelings & Incidents.
Life would have been so ‘Monotonous’ if there were no hardships, no failure, no defeat  and no heartbreaks…If we were only to live a tension free, easy going, struggle free life then the word ‘Life’ would have lost it’s true sense.
If only Happiness existed forever in our Lives then who would've turned to GOD for help…? I might be wrong at some point but it is in the Human Nature that most of us tend to forget to THANK GOD for the Blessings which HE has showered upon us all. We only return to HIM during the hard times of our life. So in order to keep a balance in Life our LORD puts us all into a ‘Test’ while analyzing that who can cope up & survive well even in the Bad Time of his Life. And the one who even accepts the challenges & hardships of life with a smile on his face and be Thankful to GOD is HIS most favorite person! He is easily able to get out of the troubles & the Roughshod in his Life. And at the end ‘that’ person is the most victorious man in life. Because he had the Power to change his Sorrows into Happiness, he had the Power to change his Defeat into a Success and he had the Courage to accept the challenges of life with a smile on his face.
Most importantly that person did not stop to THANK GOD even during the difficult phase of his Life.
If ‘Sadness’ wasn't there in our lives then how would we have learned to ‘Smile’, if we did not ‘Cry’ then how would we be able to ‘Laugh’, if we wouldn't have committed ‘Mistakes’ in life the how would we have ‘Learned’ and if we wouldn't have ‘Failed’ at any point of life then how could we have achieved ‘Success’… ??? ! 
Life is full of Contrasting situations, if one thing ‘knocks’ you down at some place then the other would always ‘benefit’ you at some other Point!